Chris;
I was so sorry to hear about your Father's death. It was providential that you had told us about his condition previous to your departure. As you said, though, life's timing is a mystery.
Previous to my Father's death a few years ago, we had moved to Colorado from Arizona. That allowed us to spend much more time with my Mom and Dad who lived in Wyoming. We even got to spend Christmas together. A month later, he died. We were thankful to have been so close to enable us to visit frequently before Dad's death.
Obviously, timing for you could not have been worse. I am sure you are looking forward to being able to go home and spend time with your Mother and other family members when you return. The closure that comes with being around family following a death, is an important part of life. It is also important to celebrate, with family and friends, your Father's life.
A person's legacy is an amazing thing to think about. I am sorry that I do not know more about your family and whether you have siblings or not nor do I know anything about your Father and his life. But just think about what he and your Mother have created for their Legacy. The impact and contribution their children are having on other lives. Your immediate family spans two continents and two cultures that your Father could never have imagined when he was a young man. Your music and creativity, with all the positive energy they have created for people all over the world are all part of this Legacy. When your parents married, could they have ever imagined what their joining would create?
It is a life worth celebrating as are all the memorable moments you recollect from childhood, of times spent together. Laughing at the idiosyncrasies and the fun and funny history; smiling as you reflect on warm memories; crying when you think about how you will miss the man your Father was before disease ravaged his mind.
I hope you have had some time to reflect and remember at this important time in your life. Please know that the time you spend in Michigan after you return, is important for you and your family. Mike and Bill and I want you to know that we do not want you to feel rushed to get back on our account. Their will be plenty of time to do what needs to be done after you have had the time you need and want with your family. You have our full support and encouragement to do what you need to do.
I hope your trip is going well despite what has happened. You have been in our thoughts and prayers.
Warmest Regards,
Jerry and the guys